Truth Behind Soul Mates

May 13, 2012 by  
Filed under Dating Advice

Soul MatesWhen someone thinks of a soul mate they imagine these two people who live in perfect harmony without a care in the world because they are so right for each other nothing else matters. They never fight or argue and everything is perfect.

The truth is that finding and staying with your soul mate takes work. The reason a couple is defined as a soul mate is because they worked really hard to get there. There is no question that as you and your soul mate go through life that you are going to experience challenges. How these are dealt with is how a couple learns to grow. When people fight from these difficult times, they typically drive each other away where soul mates on the other hand will work it out. The point is that you don’t look to “find” a soul mate. It is just impossible because when you meet someone for the first time there is no way of knowing who they are. Soul mates comes from building a relationship.

Over time two people have a better understanding of each other and learn from experiencing each other. They become so familiar with each other that their souls may feel connected. That is the true definition of a soul mate!

Dating – What to do When Your Friends Don’t Like Your Man!

October 9, 2011 by  
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Dating – What to do When Your Friends Don’t Like Your Man!

We have all been there – you have met the perfect guy; he makes you laugh, he hugs you to sleep and he takes you to see all of your favorite movies. Then you introduce him to your friends and all the bad things happen at once. They don’t like him. You don’t understand why. You start to evaluate your relationship with this new man.

This scenario does not have to mean the end of the world. There are things that you can do in order to keep both your boyfriend and your friends and the worst thing that can happen is that you have to compromise a little bit. There are so many reasons as to why they might not like your new man and the best thing that you can do is to gather them around and find out what the problem is.

You can’t be expected to find a solution if you have no idea what has gone wrong. They might not think that he is good enough for you or have heard bad things about him. Either way, your friends are there to protect you and if there is a real problem, a real friend will tell you.

If you really like this new guy, you need to explain to your friends how much you care about him. If they don’t like him because they think that he is not good enough for you then ask them to give him a chance and explain that you feel that the two of you are going to get along just fine. If the problem is more serious than this such as he already hit on one of your friends then it might be time to reevaluate. You must first understand the issue before you can come up with an answer.